If you know someone who has experienced sexual assault or rape, you can help in the following ways: 

  • Listen. Taking the time to listen and talk about what has happened can help.  
  • Signpost options. Ask them if they’re okay to talk through some possible options for support or how they might disclose what has happened. Do not take on the role of a counsellor or therapist. Your role is not to judge or influence the person’s decision. 
  • Help them make a disclosure. If they want to, and you feel able to, you can help them disclose the incident or incidents. 
  • Look after your own wellbeing. Check in with yourself after the conversation and access the help or support you need. Life Span have produced a guide on practising self-care that may be useful.  

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There are two ways you can tell us what happened